Chapter 13

Alabarin Girma da Kunya

宠辱若惊,贵大患若身。
何谓宠辱若惊?宠为下,得之若惊,失之若惊,是谓宠辱若惊。
何谓贵大患若身?吾所以有大患者,为吾有身,及吾无身,吾有何患?
故贵以身为天下,若可寄天下;爱以身为天下,若可托天下。
Alabarin girma da kunya duk sun yi tsoro.
Abin da muke kira azuzuwa mai girma, shine abin da muke kira jiki.
Menene ma'anar alabarin girma da kunya suka yi tsoro? An samun girma ya yi tsoro, an rasa shi kuma ya yi tsoro. Shi ne ma'anar alabar da kunya ta yi tsoro.
Menene ma'anar abin da muke jin tsoro game da jiki? Matsalar da muke da ita ita ce saboda jikinmu, idan ba mu da jiki, wace matsala za mu yi? Domin haka, wanda ke daraja jikinsa kamar yadda yake daraja duniya, ana iya yin taki da shi; wanda ke son jikinsa kamar yadda yake son duniya, ana iya amfana da shi.

Tunani Mai Zurfi

Me wannan babi yake magana akai?

Wannan babi yana magana game da tsoratarwa da fara halayen mutum yayin da ake samun girma ko kunya. Yana koya mana cewa dukkan abubuwan da suka faru - fahalta ko kunya - suna da tasiri kan zuciya. Hakanan yana bayyana cewa matsalolinmu suka dogara da jikinanmu, kuma idan ba mu da jiki, ba za mu yi damuwa ba.

Ta yaya ya shafi ni?

Wannan ya shafe ni sosai saboda sau da yawa ina damuwa game da yadda wasu mutane ke viewing ni - ko girma ko kunya. Wannan yana koya mini cewa dukkan abubuwa suna wucewa, kuma ba dole ba ne in yarda abinda mutane suke faɗa ya shafe ni. Ina koya don ganin jikina a matsayin kayan aiki don yin hidima ga wasu, ba wani abu da zan yi mamaki game da shi.

Me zan yi yau?

Yau, zan yi hakuri idan wani ya yi mini kunya kuma zan yi tunani game da yadda zan iya yin hidima ba tare da fahimtar lambar ba. Zan mayar da hankali kan yadda zan iya taimakawa wasu maimakon damuwa game da abunda suke tunani game da ni.

Babi-babi Masu Alaƙa

Tunanina

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